Some people take the others as a choice, but espect to be their priority; some people accept to be a choice and care about the others as a priority. 

If you are used to tell some secrets you will be surprised by similar secrets that some people will open  to you,

The best metaphysicians were the best lovers; 
the best lovers are the best metaphysicians.

Fear is the felling frequently related to something that does not exists.
Courage is the felling that brings something to its proper existence.

If your ideal is to become normal, you will soon be substituted soon.

The virtue of our time: to grow up weak for the affirmation of love and to take the biggest profit of our own cowardice, to throw away the universal deepness of soul and its everlasting works right out of its trembling surface.

Looser/Winner

A looser is more looser when he loses himself while loosing; otherwise he wins something he will never loose again. All the games are inner games.