In Europe sadness is not allowed, just its radical state after there is no way back to sanity: histery, depression, panic. Just sickness have a protected social identity.

The most dangerous thing you can do is being yourself: no one know what it is.

The experience of  a break-up means that the loved person is dead, and in such a way that this death is still every day much more  alive than yourself. 

What is the value of happiness without freedom? One need to jump into the dark uncertainty of freedom and espect to get happy from that point ahead.So the difference between coward and courageous happiness.

How accurate is your idea of the middle if you don’t have any experience of its extremes?

The moral middle therm is not enough: you beginn to search for the middle of the middle. And there you go extrem again.

A bad musician believes that the poetic and creative process ends by the composer himself; a bad composer thinks the same about his pieces.

Some people who do not get what they want can believe that they are not « manipulators » just because they did not get what they want. Because if you do not get what you want is easier to hidde what you in fact was looking for and reinterpretate the past of your acions. 

The people who get something exactly as they want are those who will always suffer from this suspectious ambiguity: “how did they come there just with a good moral?!”

The most important element of the romance ( a genuine abscence and impossibility of contact, what means a natural tension, not the artificial tension of the game) is gone.