A bad musician believes that the poetic and creative process ends by the composer himself; a bad composer thinks the same about his pieces.

Some people who do not get what they want can believe that they are not « manipulators » just because they did not get what they want. Because if you do not get what you want is easier to hidde what you in fact was looking for and reinterpretate the past of your acions. 

The people who get something exactly as they want are those who will always suffer from this suspectious ambiguity: “how did they come there just with a good moral?!”

The most important element of the romance ( a genuine abscence and impossibility of contact, what means a natural tension, not the artificial tension of the game) is gone.

Some people take the others as a choice, but espect to be their priority; some people accept to be a choice and care about the others as a priority. 

If you are used to tell some secrets you will be surprised by similar secrets that some people will open  to you,

The best metaphysicians were the best lovers; 
the best lovers are the best metaphysicians.

Fear is the felling frequently related to something that does not exists.
Courage is the felling that brings something to its proper existence.